Yes there were times back in the day, funny thing hardcore g**gans were more gillovny than most people ever were. I see a pattern.
I have to jump on this.
1. Many people from the Media, to casual observers think that they are/were dating.
2. Slow-mo gifs come from live-action flirting, touching, feeling, real-life interviews and appearances where any rational person and even casual observer would make the quite reasonable inference that these two people share an affection that goes WAY beyond mere friendly co-workers.
3. Gillian has never, ever, ever named the person she considers her partner/boyfriend. ANON is accusing people who have reasonably assumed D and G were dating based on their incredibly obvious behavior, of being irrational. Yet, in my experience, there are no love signals coming out of Gillian’s appearances with PM. Their behavior together is beyond peculiar to me (and I know for a fact that I am not alone in this). If they are dating, it is one of the coldest and most disturbing couplings I have ever witnessed. NOT RELATIONSHIP GOALS.
4. Not all people who believe that D and G had some sort of relationship have claimed to know the scope and magnitude of that coupling. The way ANON worded this seems to imply that “we all” believe that D and G followed some sort of relationship protocal. I will not speak for others, but the blogs I follow have stated over and again that they have NO IDEA the details of how the relationship D and G had played out irl.
5. Simply put, based on 2012-2016 behavior, interviews and the continued connection they share and how some of that dynamic has shifted of late, the idea that D and G were involved in some incarnation of a relationship during the last 5 years is more logical to me than believing that Gillian is in love with the cold cronie with whom she attends award shows and strange Portofino trips. I, and many who share my beliefs, are individuals just as many who disagree with us are. Lumping us into some rigid version of what you believe we believe, anon, is completely unfair and inaccurate. Clearly you are judging through your very filtered and biased lens.
Étiquette : all of that
She will arrive in NY tomorrow where her adult friend has fresh flowers waiting by the bed. He’ll kiss her hello. They’ll meditate, maybe get those healthy smoothies he likes. No matter if they attend the show together or not, they’re in the same place again, & can both breathe a little easier because of it.
I could be in denial right now, but honestly, this is such a better place!
some of y’all are straight up bitches. you need to stay off blogs you supposedly can’t stand and stop twisting anonymous messages to your benefit. gillovny blogs are not responsible for what anons ask, speculate or infer. so stop pointing fingers our way like we alone are responsible for the dumb shit people do on twitter or instagram or at dd/ga events & venues. seriously just fuck off already. it’s getting old. you don’t like what we post or believe, fine. but don’t preach about treating all women with kindness and then turn around and shit on women you unfairly call snoggers or gillovny crazies within your own fandom. it’s wrong. it’s stupid. It’s going to get you so much push back. i consider myself a decent person, a respectful, fair person. but when i see the same group of women monopolize and manipulate a huge chunk of the fandom into bully-like behavior you bet your hissy fit privileged ass im going to speak up and speak out.
enough is enough.