In the X Files fandom we don’t say “I ship Gillovny,” we say “I am Gillovny,” which literally translates to “we are all on this glorious trash heap together” and I think that’s beautiful.
This is an old post which I happened upon and I just wanted to say that I still think it’s beautiful. Love you, All! ❤️
I’ve been thinking about a way to answer this (and all the other anons I have) without causing more drama or having anymore anons come to me telling me I’m wrong or I need to die…
JHH and I have talked, she knows how I feel about everything. She has proven to me time and again how amazing and honest she is. I trust her implicitly. There have been things that have happened directly to me since October that have caused me to have my own opinions and reasons as to why I don’t believe or trust anything that a certain blog says. These things have little to do with JHH, but with all of this stuff lately, it just proves to me even more that I’ve made the right decision.
I’ve seen a lot of talk about this whole discourse and feminism. Calling someone out on their bullshit has nothing to do with feminism. I’m sick of seeing that thrown around. I love women. Anyone who knows me personally knows that I think we are amazing, strong, beautiful creatures. I love to empower, encourage and cheerlead my friends. But, I will always call them on their bullshit and they know that. I will defend my friends when I feel it’s necessary and I will call out all the hypocrisy I see – because there is so much of it going around. It doesn’t make me any less of a feminist. Attacking someone’s character with no proof and trying to cause drama between them & their friends, that’s not feminism.
I have to say that David and Gillian basically have spies every where and if you think that there aren’t people on this site who have ways of contacting them, you’re dead wrong. So, if you’re going to talk about them on a public platform, in any capacity, be ready to reap the repercussions.
That being said, I really try to stay out of the drama on tumblr. I’m over it. I just want to be able to come here and talk about the X-Files, Mulder/Scully and David/Gillian. Or argue with JHH about why I CAN wear cowboy boots with my wedding dress.
Thank you so much for this! Did I ever tell you how much I love you? Very great post! Bad ending, though. You CANNOT wear cowboy boots with your wedding dress.
I know I don’t have to, I’m not going to call them out, I’m not going to scroll through their blog until I find something I want to confront them to. We all could do that, but I don’t know… I always think that when someone talks to me, or about me, I feel like it’s always better to answer and explain yourself, especially when you haven’t done anything wrong and you have nothing to be ashamed of. I’m not ISYL, and if this is what they think, they’re wrong. I’ve made my point about what I thought about ISYL, I’m a different person, I have a different way to handle my blog, and I will have a different way to deal with these call out post. And most of all, I won’t leave tumblr because a handful of bloggers have some issues with what I post. I have issues with what a few people post here, but I just unfollow them and let them do their thing. There’s enough room for everyone.
Just Holding Hands 