I’m sorry you’ve been treated this way, anon. No one should, especially if your ask was meant to be nice and respectful.
The Netflix theory, as well as The Crown casting/producing one is as valid and respectable as any other and clearly not more far fetched than believe she’s dating a man she knows for 2 seconds and has never been seen close to him at all.
Thankfully, I think we’re close to end and this behavior will stop soon, when everybody know the truth.