Hi, anon! Seems like you didn’t chose the best time to convert to Gillovny 😀
It does seem like a lot of effort, but I don’t think they really “hide”. I think they mostly know where to go and where not to go. I think their relationship lasts for a few years now, and if you just google their name in 2011 – 2012, you will see that they used to be less cautious than they are now. There are plenty of sightings rumors at the time, and not only by fans but also from the press. Even Evan Handler tweeted a sighting before it was removed. I think they’ve learnt from their mistakes and learnt how to protect their privacy, but it doesn’t stop them from disappearing and reappearing very often at the same time or being spotted in the same city for no apparent reasons.
A coming out would be the cutest thing for us, for sure, but not necessarily for them. If they’re happy living their relationship this way, they have nothing to win to go public. But no relationship can stay hidden forever…