How are you coping with your feelings? Help me, please. I am still having a hard time with the secrecy and leading us all on. I feel like I’ve been duped. I feel like I’ve been lied to by someone I love and cherish. I can’t keep the negative feelings at bay. They keep rising to the surface. I’m supposed to be happy that she’s happy, but I am hurt. She promoted this fairytale. She sold me in this fairytale. Right now, the dishonesty is killing me. I don’t know how to move past it. How? Help me.