My relationship now is more emotionally detached to Gillian, same feeling as though a best friend who became a friend over night. I still enjoy your blog a lot because I do see the interaction between D&G as something worth witnessing, I would love to have one relationship in my own life where someone understands me at that level, romantic or not. I thought I knew the things that Gillian stood for, but realize I don’t anymore. 1/2

I still respect the work that Gillian does and would wish her the best in everything she does, but I don’t have that same feeling like I understand the actual person behind the work. Obviously, this is the feeling as a fan and I’m not saying any of us actually has a personal relationship to her, but in the past few months I’ve realized she’s moving on with her life and so am I. We are not as tight as we used to be–it feels like being back before she started giving us pieces of who she was.2/2

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Thank you so much for your insight, anon. You seem to be at peace with her, and I hope I can manage to follow your steps.