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I’ve been trying to avoid posting about all that’s happened recently but I have to say something that is really bothering me. I’ve been reading that someone has posted a screenshot(?) of a private chat.

Seriously WTF!!

There is a reason why those bloggers went to a private chat to share their comments and didn’t have an open convo on Tumblr. People are allowed to believe whatever they want. I did not and will not look at the pictures of that chat but those comments were meant to be just between the group. There is nothing wrong with that! I’m sure they had no intention of voicing those comments publicly. It doesn’t make someone a bad person if they are venting among friends.

I’m so sad at where this fandom has gone in the last year. I remember a great group of people who posted fun stuff about D, G and our favorite show. Now people are vindictive and flat out mean to each other. And the kicker is some of the people who are shit talking others are posting about being good, respectful fans. I don’t get it.

KINDNESS MATTERS. The world we are living in is getting worse by the minute – people on here should be banding together and supporting each other, not cutting each other down. Let bloggers believe what they want and feel how they want. If you disagree start a convo WITH THEM don’t blast them publicly to others. And if you can’t do that then unfollow. It’s that simple.

Sorry I’m tired and cranky and sick of all the bullshit.