I know you don’t need more messages in your inbox about the drama, but I’d like to put my two cents in, if it’s worth anything. I’m gillovny, have been and will be, and I /am/ upset by the fact that there’s hard evidence it isn’t real (as of now), but there’s not much we can do and I want to love and respect Gillian for her choices – whatever they may be – and see her happy. I am gillovny, but I will not put my shipper feelings over Gillian’s choices, because that’s what being supportive is.

Thank you for this message, and so sorry for the time it took me to post it! 🙂

You’re right, our shipper feelings shouldn’t go against Gillian’s choices, but when all that happened, I think everything got mixed up and we all reacted with anger and frustration. It settles down a little now, I guess. I only speak for myself, but it would have made it easier to accept that Gillovny as a couple isn’t real anymore if Gillian looked happy, and if her new bf was remotely lovable. But yeah… there’s nothing we can do, so we have to deal with it now. And wait…