That’s because some people idealize Gillian to the point of seeing her living in a Desperate Housewives episode where she bakes cookies all day long with a yellow apron on and a matching headband. They also think her boys are 2 and 4 years old forever.
School starts again soon and I’m pretty sure that in real life, Oscar doesn’t want any of his parents around for this day. For some reasons, some people believe Gillian has to be there every minute of every day for her children and despite what she said during many interviews, they forget the boys have a father who is very important and present in their life too.