I’m sorry if you could give me your most genuine answer to this I’d be really appreciative! Why is it super adorable when G doesn’t give a fuck and posts whatever Shen wants on set and of david but if M posts a cute photo or video of brick or a sunset in Vancouver she’s « over sharing » and playing with the fandom? Is it cause we’re under the impression she’s an employee and it’s unprofessional? Or do we just have an unfair double standard. Truly curious to hear what your think!

I think the answer is in your question. It is adorable when Gillian shares pictures of the set or bts with the fandom because she is the fandom. We’re fan of her, of the show she plays in, of her relationship with David. She is in control of what she shares with us, she’s advised, she knows what she does, it is her job. Monique is just sharing bits of David’s private life and places to whomever she decides to accept then block, then accept again. 

Following Gillian on social media is just following Gillian. But following Monique is stalking. That’s the difference.