I am in a relationship with someone just shy of 20 years older than me. We have been together for over a decade. I was 24 when we got together. Are you judging me and all of us on a boat like this? I have sat back and read some diatribe on here because of this girls age. She’s 24!! Do you remember being 24? Remember that in between period of letting go of your youth and trying to cross that bridge into adulthood? It might not hurt to think back. It doesn’t make her bad. I’m not a fan of D&M

No offense, anon, but this is not about you. There’s a few people who reblogged my post sharing their stories about dating people 20 something older than them, and honestly, this is not about that. I’m not judging you, I’m not judging them. But what I noticed, is that everyone has a story about dating someone 20 years older, but no one has anything to share about dating someone 33 years older. According to me, that makes a huge difference. 

Then, I haven’t said anything about her. I was 24 not so long ago, and I would have hit David Duchovny if I had the occasion. It’s not about her, it’s about him. It about him doing the exact opposite of what he stands for, being a total hypocrite cliché, flying this girl in and out for his own pleasure and keeping her warm and safe at his disposal in his house while literally denouncing that kind of relationship in his books and in his interviews. 
It’s not only her age, but the fact that she’s been around him before she was allowed to drink. David knows his dad since the 90s, which means he probably got to see her in diapers. She’s been connected to West before she was connected to David. Honestly, if you can’t see how gross it is, and if this relationship doesn’t bother you one bit, then we cannot understand each other. Sorry.