Hello JHH! I have a question that is not about David or Gillian but about the fandom. Maybe you don’t know this but A LOT of your followers are on Mary🌷’s forum. It saddens me to see that all those people who seem to be nice and balanced hang out with such a dangerous and crazy girl. So I was wondering if there was something you could do against it and why not setting up your own forum? ❤️

Hi anon! Yeah, it has been reported to me that a few people I know are on this forum, and as this person sends me (and probably others) hateful messages and death threats 10 times a day on anon probably thinking I don’t know it’s her, it’s saddens me too.
I’ve said it many times here, I know I’m not the only one, but Mary🌷 as you called her (took me 15 minutes to find this emoji, thank you) is not someone we should give any attention and she should get the medical help she needs instead of spending her days spreading lies and hatred on the internet.
That said, I’m not stupid and I know that me saying that won’t make these people leave her forum. I guess we all need a place to vent and rant, hidden from public view. I do it on whatsapp, with my friend, or in the chat here.

I’ve been asked a few times to set up a private Gillovny forum and I’ve always said no because it seems to me that it would mean hiding Gillovny and that’s not what I want. I don’t want Gillovny to be something shameful that we can only discuss between us.
There’s a long story of Gillovny private boards behind us, especially when both David and Gillian were in relationships with other people and shipping them was “forbidden”. I’ve been privy to one of this place once, and I hated it. That was waaaay too snoggery for me and it was like everybody believed they were secretly married and had 3 children together. I know that setting up such a private forum would fatally open that kind of discussions and I don’t want to be part of that and certainly not responsible for that kind of drifts.

In other words, I’m very mixed on setting up such a place and I tend towards the No for all the reasons I explained. I think the people who already are on *this* forum need a free space and I know if I was in charge, I would moderate the shit out of it! So I don’t think it’s a good idea.