I think the most likely scenario, and the one that scares the fans the most, is that MP actually doesn’t even know you exist. She is living in her own little bubble with her boyfriend and her friends and none of the bs from the fan base even matters. That’s a scary thought for certain sectors of the fan base (the ones who desperately want DD to be with GA) because it would mean that what MP & DD is possibility real, and that every post she makes is not actually aimed toward the fans. (1/2)

(2/2) The idea that the fans are invisible to someone in David’s world is so scary to the fans that all of the jealousy and anger is misplaced in a way that results in picking apart every post by MP, and grasping at straws to prove that you exist, and are not invisible. I can see where that would be scary to people who devote so much time to following DD & GA.

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Again, you’re missing pieces of information or you’ve forgotten. I remember two times when she directly addressed the fandom on Instagram. Once, she posted something like “don’t you dare judging the reason why someone loves another person”, I’m paraphrasing terribly, but it happened right after the first Monique Gate.
The second time happened when a large part of the fandom, including myself, thought she was dating a guy named Shane because she had a picture of them kissing, that she removed after we started talking about it. That Shane guy posted a picture of the two of them calling her his “(girl)friend” and she commented “oh yeah, because apparently we’re dating.”
It’s also very plausible that she got the “Monique Duchovny” tumblr blog deleted.

So she does know about us, she does address us on Instagram. This isn’t something we’re making up.