If she follows him everywhere , even to a 24 hour thing in chicago, and has to showoff the whole thing (but still not going to the con itself) she must really be afraid from gillian. So i am really not worried.

I’m sure she’s afraid of her shadow. She got her hand on that man, everyone on earth including g them know it won’t last forever but she might as well make sure it doesn’t end tomorrow. Going from 1st class flights to waitressing again might be scary, I can’t blame her.