Hello JHH! I have a question that is not about David or Gillian but about the fandom. Maybe you don’t know this but A LOT of your followers are on Mary🌷’s forum. It saddens me to see that all those people who seem to be nice and balanced hang out with such a dangerous and crazy girl. So I was wondering if there was something you could do against it and why not setting up your own forum? ❤️

Hi anon! Yeah, it has been reported to me that a few people I know are on this forum, and as this person sends me (and probably others) hateful messages and death threats 10 times a day on anon probably thinking I don’t know it’s her, it’s saddens me too.
I’ve said it many times here, I know I’m not the only one, but Mary🌷 as you called her (took me 15 minutes to find this emoji, thank you) is not someone we should give any attention and she should get the medical help she needs instead of spending her days spreading lies and hatred on the internet.
That said, I’m not stupid and I know that me saying that won’t make these people leave her forum. I guess we all need a place to vent and rant, hidden from public view. I do it on whatsapp, with my friend, or in the chat here.

I’ve been asked a few times to set up a private Gillovny forum and I’ve always said no because it seems to me that it would mean hiding Gillovny and that’s not what I want. I don’t want Gillovny to be something shameful that we can only discuss between us.
There’s a long story of Gillovny private boards behind us, especially when both David and Gillian were in relationships with other people and shipping them was “forbidden”. I’ve been privy to one of this place once, and I hated it. That was waaaay too snoggery for me and it was like everybody believed they were secretly married and had 3 children together. I know that setting up such a private forum would fatally open that kind of discussions and I don’t want to be part of that and certainly not responsible for that kind of drifts.

In other words, I’m very mixed on setting up such a place and I tend towards the No for all the reasons I explained. I think the people who already are on *this* forum need a free space and I know if I was in charge, I would moderate the shit out of it! So I don’t think it’s a good idea.

All this time I was here thinking Gillian was being immature and had hurt David when maybe it was the other way around? And now I feel a little guilty about being annoyed with her 😕

Well… I don’t. First of all we don’t know what happened. We can only guess and try to analyze and there’s no way for us to figure everything out anyway. Then PM happened in Gillian’s life before Monique happened in David’s, XF season 10 premiere aside. So no matter what happened between Gillian and David in the last two years, that won’t explain Portofino nor the shift in her personality. There’s still a lot of grey areas in this whole mess.

Can something make you change your mind about David or are you 100% sure he’s with MP and he’s a lost case? Because to me it smells really badly. I think there is so much more to this story and we’ll never really know the truth.

Yes, David could make me change my mind. As I haven’t seen anything with my own eyes, I relate on others and friends I trust. But if David says a word about this and admits that he’s not dating her, then I would change my mind, of course. But he would have to explain why she lives at his house, goes on vacation with him, follows him everywhere all around the world and introduces herself as his girlfriend to his fans. 

Grown women bad mouthing, name calling and trolling a young woman because of who she is in a relationship with is disgusting and there is no excuse. Seen a clip of David & Monique walking through Elements Resort in Byron Bay shortly before they headed home. They are both walking with their arms around others waists, chatting and smiling at each other. They are obvs close so she is not just David’s f**k toy. Time for fans who think they own him to move on and stop acting like children.

Awww… Monique… you’re having free time again don’t you?

What gets me is that many fans think that people are only bothered by MP because she’s not Gillian; that’s NOT true. I never considered myself Gillovny even if I liked the idea. I didn’t give DD a thought for years until the revival and I started reading his press. I’m 49 and felt like I was reading about someone who was ok with aging and was dealing with the issues that go along w/getting older. Someone I could relate to. Obviously, that’s not the case. He thinks he relates to my daughter 🤢

😔sad but true.