jhh when you say you can’t support his behavior what does it mean exactly? You’re not going to post about him again?

I’m not going to lie, I have no idea about that. I just know that I don’t want to support this relationship in any kind of way. To be honest with you, I’ve cancelled my order on Pledge for his album. That may sound ridiculous and childish, but I’m not giving him my money for now. I have no idea if he wrote any song for this girl, but I know I don’t want to be part of that. There no way I participate in financing her flight tickets so her can fly her in when has an itch. I also somehow managed that get an advance copy of Miss Subways that i can’t bring myself to read. Even if I’m sure I’d love it because I know how talented he is with his writing, I just can’t. It’s very hard for me to detach myself from who he is and just appreciate his art. I’ll probably watch the last episodes of XF, maybe not at 2am, though.
That’s just how I feel right now, I don’t know how this feeling will evolve, if it will ever evolve, but I just know that I don’t want to have anything to do with David Duchovny right now. He grosses me out too much. So I’ll just go with the flow of my emotions, and start posting again about him if I ever feel like doing it, but not today and probably not tomorrow either. 

This place is so sad compared to how it was two years ago, even though we are blessed with a good season. It makes me sad that we’re back to radiosilence and Gillian doing things for the very last time. So many people have left this place already and continue to slip away quietly. What’s left is disecting the messes Gillian and David create. How did we end up here?

I agree and honestly, there’s only two people to blame for the mess in their own fandom right now. 🤷🏽‍♀️
Let’s see the bright side: when things can’t get worse, they can only improve…

JHH, two big blogs gave up gillovny, please tell me you’re not next? I know this is difficult, you are disappointed, I am too, but please do not give up. I still believe things are going to be good again, it was all so beautiful it can not end like this. Those two will find their way back and we have so many good things in this fandom that we just have to continue. But I understand those who are giving up 😞

Who has given up? I must have missed this information 😦
But no, don’t worry, I’m not giving up, I’m not deleting my blog either. I’m just going to be here, all disappointed and bitter 😄 nice uh?

JHH, I’ve been following you for a long time. Do you really think it’s true that D turned out to be an old creep after all? If that’s the case, I seriously will use my hard worked social marketing skills to do a campaign to get him kicked to the rank of Woody Allen, Weinstein and his claimed-enemy – Trump. I am serious.

See? That’s the big problem with this relationship. It’s gross, it’s wrong, and I get that the tabloids will definitely compare it to all the terrible things that are happening in Hollywood but as much as I find it disgusting and I can’t support David in this, it is not the same as Weinstein or Woody Allen. Let’s just not go there, cause it’s a dangerous ground. What is doing is disgusting but it’s not illegal and he’s not forcing her.
I’m not trying to defend him because really he isn’t defendable but yeah… that’s two very different things.

I am in a relationship with someone just shy of 20 years older than me. We have been together for over a decade. I was 24 when we got together. Are you judging me and all of us on a boat like this? I have sat back and read some diatribe on here because of this girls age. She’s 24!! Do you remember being 24? Remember that in between period of letting go of your youth and trying to cross that bridge into adulthood? It might not hurt to think back. It doesn’t make her bad. I’m not a fan of D&M

No offense, anon, but this is not about you. There’s a few people who reblogged my post sharing their stories about dating people 20 something older than them, and honestly, this is not about that. I’m not judging you, I’m not judging them. But what I noticed, is that everyone has a story about dating someone 20 years older, but no one has anything to share about dating someone 33 years older. According to me, that makes a huge difference. 

Then, I haven’t said anything about her. I was 24 not so long ago, and I would have hit David Duchovny if I had the occasion. It’s not about her, it’s about him. It about him doing the exact opposite of what he stands for, being a total hypocrite cliché, flying this girl in and out for his own pleasure and keeping her warm and safe at his disposal in his house while literally denouncing that kind of relationship in his books and in his interviews. 
It’s not only her age, but the fact that she’s been around him before she was allowed to drink. David knows his dad since the 90s, which means he probably got to see her in diapers. She’s been connected to West before she was connected to David. Honestly, if you can’t see how gross it is, and if this relationship doesn’t bother you one bit, then we cannot understand each other. Sorry.