Étiquette : fandom

Ya know I’ve been thinking about everything lately. I wonder if our love of gillovny comes from some deep desire to have a clearly beautiful best friend that is seemingly off limits BUT maintain an insanely flirtatious relationship. I had that once, back in high school and it was perfect and I was ALWAYS thinking « are we, aren’t we???? » It was so fun and when I thought of gillovny, it felt the same way. Are we lacking something in our lives? Or do I need to lay off the wine and shut up?

That’s a good question, and I’m not sure one can answer it. Some people say that being a fan of something or someone, in general, means you have something lacking in your life, or you have issues, or whatever. I don’t believe that. I don’t feel like there’s something particularly lacking in my life, and to quote (or paraphrase, maybe) Gillian, I’m very happy with my life and what’s in it. I guess I would need years of therapy to find out what brought me to become a fan in general and a Gillovny fan in particular. Probably some unconscious issues, but who doesn’t have some?

I don’t think I’d be happy with that kind of relationship. I need things to be clear and straight, so ambiguous relationships are not my thing, so for me, it’s not that. 

So I have no idea why I’m here, I have no idea why you’re here, if some do know, I’d be genuinely curious to hear their story so maybe I can see if I can relate to them. But all in all, I’m just happy that we’re all here!

So how is it gonna be? They reblog their stuff and we reblog ours? Or we forget everything and are one unite fandom?

I’m not that childish to only reblog from my friends. I reblog a post, not a person anyway. I’m blocked by a few people, I haven’t blocked a lot though, because I don’t care that much, so we won’t be a united fandom either, I don’t think it’s possible at this point. But hopefully, season 11, from its filming to its airing will sign a truce.
I want to focus on the positivity of those 5 months, I don’t want to fight, I don’t want to see my friends being dragged for expressing their opinions, I don’t want to see trolls stirring shit between the two sides, I want a peaceful season 11. And a good one. And I hope Gillian stops throwing fuel to the fire too, because that’s not helping.

(submission) Hello JHH. I am hoping; you don’t mind I am asking you to post this and that I am using your blog to do that, but you are the most popular gillovny blog here and I am sure this gonna be read by the people this message is for. It is about the blogger you and many of the others blocked many months ago so I am really hoping, you will publish it anyway.

This is about Mary person, (I am not gonna give her URL but ppl will know of whom I am talking about), a snogger, who writes terrible, horrifying things about Gillian (and about Tea too). And as I know we cannot do much about her lies, she is louder and louder only because people are giving her an attention, something she desperately needs and the more of people believing her lies the more lies she is telling them. And those people are following you JHH.

The day before Bafta TV this person told ppl Gillian is already in NYC. But Gillian appeared at BAFTa, so this person called out Gillian a liar and that “she is doing what she wants”. Because this person’s lies could have been exposed, she said, that it was Gillian’s fault and that she got a fight with David or some other bullshit because of that and he was mad at her (are you still curious why some of your anons thought that there was something off at Webbys?) THE PERSON LIED! The BAFTa tv event was planned around the time The Golden Globes were planned! I heard Gillian will be at Baftas in January, so how come the person who knows so much about Gillian’s and David’s personal life didn’t?

The person said the contract with Morgan had ended a long time ago. ANOTHER LIE. It ends just now and Bafta was the last event this pair attended together.

The person said she didn’t know if Gillian would be at Upfronts. ANOTHER LIE as Upfronts are the part of the contracts.

She told ppl that Gillian was in Washington and would be at David’s event. When she found out that there was no way for Gillian to “hide” there and David was with the fans all the time, she said, that Gillian hadn’t come because the foot hurt her so much. She didn’t even know that Gillian’s injury wasn’t THAT serious and she can even walk without crutches. But what is important, Gillian had some meeting planned way earlier, meetings I heard about from someone. So how come Mary, the most informed person in the whole fandom, didn’t?

I know people are grown adults and can think for themselves but please, guys, consider what I am telling you here. Consider, how the person who knows so many details about Gillian’s and David’s life (she literally telling you that David was angry at Gillian, like wtf??? was she in the room when he was angry? LOL), never know if Gillian will appear at the official events which are contracted and planned much earlier?  
The person is now shaming Gillian because she needs sidetrack to hide her lies! PLEASE DON’T BELIEVE HER!!!

I am hoping not doing you JHH a lot of trouble with this but it is very important, and people who are on this person’s forum, and who liked her posts are also popular bloggers in gillovny fandom and they definitely read you.

Thank you.

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I’ve weighted the pros and cons to post this or not. Cons were of course making publicity to this blogger, but after checking that blog, I realized that you were right, that some of my followers and friends has liked a few posts on this blog, so the pros won. There’ll never be enough warnings against this blogger. Everything they say is wrong, dangerous, defaming and false. I really thought it was common knowledge in the fandom, but turns out it may be not, so it can’t be useless to warn the Gillovny fandom once more against this blog. They know nothing, and they’re always wrong on everything. If there’s only one blog who should be blocked and ignored, it is this one. 

I just want to thank you for always being rational and honest in this time of craziness. I think most of us are all kind of feeling the same way you are, cautiously optimistic. Yours is the first blog I check every morning because I know no matter what you will be kind and respectful towards whatever is thrown at you. I know you didn’t ask for it, but you took up the Gillovny torch of responsibility and are doing an amazing job. Stay strong and Gillovny on!

Oh god! Thank you so much, I’m actually blushing for real, I think! 🙂 it’s people like you who make me want to Gillovny on and ignore those who attack me but actually do it wrong because they don’t read my blog. Who cares about the haters? We’re a loving and powerful fandom, we get this, we love and support each other, and Gillovny is real! 💪

They say we’re not part of their fandom because we refuse to admit she’s dating PM. I’m in this fandom for 20 years, I know better than a few arrogant teens what this fandom is. Keep doing you JHH! There’s enough room for everyone in this fandom and don’t let anyone tell you something else. (Sorry bad English)

Who “they”? It doesn’t really matter to me, though. I’m in a fandom which love and respect both David and Gillian equally, which cherish their relationship and understand that Gillian loves David and David loves Gillian. And if it bothers 2 or 3 bloggers here, so be it.

I just wanted to say I used to love this fandom. It used to be my happy place. MSR and Gillovny was, all the internal jokes were. Now it’s become a place where I don’t like to come back. I miss the old days where you could say your opinion without getting dragged or bullied. Gillovny, not gillovny, whatever, it was your opinion. But as long as the crazy tagging and on the other side the fandom police are out there I think I’m gonna stay hidden. I’m gonna miss this, though. Or what it used to be.

I’m sorry you’re feeling that way, anon, I’m sure you’re not alone in this case and I hope you will come back soon when this fandom will be in a better place. In the meantime, I hope I can still make a my blog a place where you can share your opinion without being dragged or bullied, as long as you’re not insulting or provoking anyone, Gillian, David or another blogger. ❤

I just wanted to say thank you for being a positive light even when the anti-Gillovny crew seems to be getting bigger and bigger. To me, the term « gillovny » has meant so much more than just whatever romantic relationship may or may not be there. It’s about the bond between two people who have overcome so much together. No one can discount the fact they love each other, whatever that might mean. So yeah, kisses–thanks for fighting the good fight! <3

Thank you, anon. And if I can reassure you, I don’t feel like the anti-Gillovny crew is getting bigger and bigger. I feel like it’s quite the opposite that is happening. I know my Tumblr friends are gaining more and more new followers everyday, I personally have never gained so much in less time (by the way, Hi everyone, Welcome, and Sorry!) and I’m making new Gillovny friends everyday on this site! After the GG, I thought my inbox would explode with hate and trolls, but it was the total opposite and still is. People are genuinely kind, comprehensive and sweet, and except one or two funny anons, I haven’t received any hateful messages. I’m not used to it! 🙂 I feel like actually, this side of the fandom is getting stronger and more unified than ever. That’s the good side of chaos!