Ok listen, first off I’m gillovny af, but I’m going to feel really bad if GA is with him*, but they don’t want to be seen together publicly b/c of all the crazy ass fans harassing both of them on twitter. I may not be a fan of the guy, but everyone deserves happiness and if he makes her happy who the fuck are we to talk AT her about it. (And by we I don’t mean you and me and the lovely gillovny Tumblrs – I mean the crazy fans who pretty much cyber bully celebs) *he who shall not be named

None of us should blame her or lynch her social media for that, you’re right. But I really do not think that’s the reason why they don’t want to be seen together, as you said. The thing is, they’re seen. They did come together at this ceremony, and sat together. If you believe they’re a couple, then you believe they’re out already, if not, it doesn’t make sense. Plus, acting like a couple once would maybe raise some anger and sadness and craziness in the fandom, but it would eventually calm down for good. What they’re doing isn’t a slow coming out as I could have read here and there. It’s something else, and I can’t put my finger on what it is exactly.

That said, I haven’t been much on Twitter tonight, but it feels like it much better than it used to be, right?

I am gillovny af so don’t want you to think I’m being shady. I am just curious for your opinion. If (huge if) ga and pm are together as a couple – do you think they didn’t walk the carpet together because of the backlash last time? I know ga doesn’t bother with social media but her team obviously knew the score. She may not be massively famous but bad press is bad press. Maybe this explains pm hanging back and trying to block the cameras filming candid stuff?

That doesn’t make any sense to me, actually. If they don’t want to be seen because of the backlash, which I don’t believe, then they wouldn’t show up together and sit together at all. At this point, if they’re together, they’re supposed to be out already. So there’s no need to hide and act like a non-couple. There’s so many things that don’t make sense and don’t add up that I’ve basically decided to chill and see what comes next. Things are rarely as simple as they look. 

With the lack of any real evidence to back up the rumors, I have to ask. What do you think was the whole deal with GA’s over enthusiastic support of the crown? Showing up at the premieres, the awards, PM’s dinner. It makes no sense other than being there for him in a personal way, but everything, especially the fact that you said the partner and not single comments point to DD, points to there being nothing between her and PM. I’ll never understand Nov 2016 to March 2017.

I think we will understand later. It makes no sense to me that it all happened for personal reasons, I think it was all professional, and I’m just really happy and grateful we can start talking about it with the past tense. 

This is just the insecure part of me worrying, but I had this disturbing thought. When GA said ‘if she was single and childless’ what if she didn’t specify who she’s with because the press already thinks she’s with PM and she felt no need to restate something she thinks everyone assumes about her? Again, just my crazy thought but it’s eating at me. I still don’t know how you guys are connecting partner and ‘not single’ to DD. If you could tell me that, it’d help a lot.

First of all, she mentioned David as her partner in a radio interview a few days before this interview. Then, it was a written interview and if my memory serves me right, it was stated that her words have been rewritten to fit the interview. We have no way to know if she really said it, the way she said it, and what she exactly meant. Maybe she only mentioned the children and they added the “if I was single”, maybe she said it in a way like if I didn’t have children, maybe she indeed said it thinking about her partner, but at this point, it doesn’t have to mean that she’s with PM. 

It’s been two month without seeing them together. I know Gillian hasn’t done any public appearance since her promotional tour in NY, but shouldn’t two people in love living in the same city be spotted at least once together? There has been many sightings of Gillian in London in the last two months, none of them mentioned PM. 

It just seems less and less real to me 🙂

i don’t get it, why are you afraid she would go with him IF you do not believe she is with him? These awards aren’t that important that she would show up there. Bafta tv is something different, though, I am not even convinced about it either.

I wouldn’t say I’m afraid, but I wasn’t ready for a new fandom shitstorm today. We’re living in a perfect bubble of happiness since Season 11 has been confirmed, and I don’t want anything to ruin it.

Bafta tv is indeed something else, but she’s used to attend, so I won’t be surprised so see her there like I would have been if she had showed up tonight. 

So, I am Gillovny af and do not think she is with Peter, but If she were (or someone else) why would it be disrespectful to her partner/bf if she troll David? This considering all know about it and are ok with it. They are grown ups and can handle it, so as long as everyone is ok, why not? I am not saying they do, but if were the case… (Sorry if there’s some mistake cellphone don’t let me go back 2 check)

If it were the case, if PM was okay with Gillian publicly wearing a shirt stating she’s with another man with whom she has a complicated history, with whom she’s been rumored to be dating for the last 25 years, to whom half of the planet think she’s married ; if he’s okay she jokes on the size of his manhood for the countless time ; if he’s okay she teases him on how he tastes and how he’ll lick her shirt, then fair enough.
If it’s okay for him that her brand new girlfriend says she has a solidified and intensified friendship with another man while being in a relationship with him, that’s great. If he accepts all of the above without a blink, and knowing it’ll never stop, and it’ll only get worst when they start filming together again, he’s the most compliant man I know, and good for him! It doesn’t really fit the description that was made of him in the press, but what we read in the press is rarely the truth, right? …

we haven’t seen PM since WOW because we haven’t seen much of GA since her book promo. the bafta craft awards are this weekend and PM is nominated. if GA goes as his date again, this nonsense should end.

Unless we see them act like a couple and she doesn’t look like she’d rather cut off her own arm than being there, attending an award ceremonies together in an another professional context is not a proof. So yeah, hopefully, the madness will end soon.